Life
is a journey. Death will come when it comes, no matter how often the topic is
avoided, how forcefully technology wrestles it to the ground, or how sincerely
pleas for more earthly time are requested. Accepting the certainty of death can
be so much easier when it’s approached like any other important life event. By
following a workable plan, you can enjoy comforting closure when that ultimate
destination is reached. Consider these 10 steps featuring scenic routes on your
journey to becoming dead right:
10 Steps to Becoming Dead Right
1. Accept death as part of life.
Death will come to everyone. Empower yourself by dealing with this reality.
2. Listen to the Universe.
Some say it’s the Universe. Many use God, Higher Power, or other names. If
you believe you are part of an infinite enlightenment, be still and listen.
3. Expect rainbow smiles.
Rainbow smiles are joyous, healing, memorable moments that come more often
when anticipated.
4. Live a healthy lifestyle.
Practice habits of healthy living in all areas of your life.
5. Be informed and proactive.
Keep abreast of what’s happening in life. When circumstances arise that can
benefit from your input, apply what you know.
6. Do your best.
You can’t solve every problem or be everything to everybody. Do what
you can.
7. Give service to others.
Complement others by fulfilling needs through service. Both server and
recipient benefit from this win-win partnership.
8. Be grateful for blessings.
Blessings come like wondrous celebrations held in your honor. Let
appreciation reign!
9.
Put death wishes in writing.
Fulfillment of your end-of-life wishes will often depend on what you
discuss and record now. Get medical, financial, and property decisions in
order.
10.
Have a dignified death journey.
Breathe in your final phase of life with contentment. Experience a dying
process that brings beauty and calm to your personal letting go.
© Frances Shani Parker
Becoming Dead Right: A Hospice Volunteer in Urban Nursing Homes
Frances
Shani Parker, Author
Becoming Dead Right: A Hospice Volunteer
in Urban Nursing Homes is available in paperback and e-book
editions in America and other countries at online and offline booksellers.
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