Through the years, I have
noticed a reluctance by several caregivers to enroll a loved one in a dementia day care program. They usually defend their positions by saying
statements such as, “No one can take better care of him than I can,” or “I’m
sure she won’t like it there. She would rather stay at home.” Having
visited and participated in several dementia day care programs, I know that a daily
routine focused on dementia-oriented activities, balanced hot meals, supportive
caregivers and loving friends is far better that sitting at home in a limited
environment that too often includes mostly watching television, eating and
sleeping.
Nowadays, I suggest to
caregivers that they and their loved ones living with dementia visit a day care
program for just one day and see how they like it. So far, no one has stopped
going back. On one first day trip, the person with dementia did not want to leave when all
her new friends walked her to the door, hugged her and said good-bye. And the
caregivers still say they wish they had gone sooner. They especially appreciate
the quality respite time that they can enjoy, while knowing
their loved ones are in good hands at the dementia center.
The
best part of day care is that both caregivers and those with dementia benefit.
A research study examined the effects adult day care programs had on individuals with dementia and their caregivers from the perspective of care providers at such a program.The care providers identified several benefits. These benefits followed two themes including the
role of care providers and the time to breathe.
The following video demonstrates activities of the San Diego, California Alzheimer's Day Care
Center (Glenner Town Square) where a 1950’s memory village has been created. The video explains
information about Alzheimer’s disease and what caregiver providers and those living with dementia can do at
the village to stimulate minds and improve their sense of purpose.
Frances Shani Parker, Author
Becoming
Dead Right: A Hospice Volunteer in Urban Nursing Homes is available
in paperback and e-book editions in America and other countries at online and
offline booksellers.
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