Unbefriended Older Adult Seniors (Research, Video 3:02)

Older adults who have reduced decision-making capacity and no family or friends to compensate for these deficiencies are known as unbefriended. Being unbefriended jeopardizes a fundamental concept of American healthcare. These adults require public guardians.

Available research on unbefriended older adults in Canada and the United States is very limited. In fact, no Canadian studies or reports were located. Three things we do know about them are these: Unbefriended older adults are childless or have fewer children, are more cognitively impaired, and are older than older adults who were not unbefriended. We also know that more research on them is urgently needed.

Unfortunately, the process for making decisions on behalf of unbefriended patients is complicated and varies throughout the country. An example is this case of an unbefriended hospital patient admitted with cardiac arrest. The patient suffered significant brain damage and was in a vegetative state. This case occurred in a state where, unless an unbefriended patient will imminently die despite medical therapy, all measures must be taken to prolong the patient's life. With no surrogate with whom healthcare professionals could have a goals-of-care discussion, they were obligated to continue aggressive management despite knowing it would prolong, but not improve the patient’s condition. Prolonging life included a feeding tube and being transferred to a long-term care facility.

The importance of having early healthcare discussions regarding treatment and written advance directives including a surrogate (durable power of attorney) to make medical decisions cannot be stressed enough. If you were dying right now, would you be unbefriended? Would you be protected from overtreatment or undertreatment? Dr. Eric Widera explains solutions to this problem in this video brought to you by members of the American Academy of Hospice and Palliative Medicine.

Frances Shani Parker, Author
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