Heartfelt stories tucked
inside had aged into whispers needing to be shouts. Stereotypes of life after
60 portraying them as declining old people waiting for life’s finale had
persuaded some to even question their own testimonies. What energizes life
after 60? What celebrates worth of the worthy? An exciting workshop
partnership between Brush Park Manor, an independent living Presbyterian Villages of Michigan community for older Detroit adults, and Poets and Writers, Inc. was the answer.
Participants came together in a
mutual quest to find out what really matters in life for them now and how they
could inspire aging journeys of others. They created win-win personal
narratives that helped them discover more about themselves and one another. An
enlightening collection of stories representing their personal truths evolved
through focused introspection and sharing.
These are some successful aging gems from their stories:
1. Joyce
Alfaro enjoys traveling to many countries now that she has time.
2. Nathan
Anderson stopped using drugs and counsels other addicts.
3. Bessie
Ardis keeps in touch with her family at reunions.
4. Dorothy
Bell cherishes her freedom to do what she wants to do when she wants to do it.
5. Barbara
Jean Carter plays music and crochets to relax and be creative.
6. Mildred
Everette enjoys meetings and trips with the Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
program.
7. Charity
Jackson teaches the Enhance Fitness exercise program to fellow residents while
improving her own health.
8. Thomas
Jackson takes pride in photography and singing.
9. Harriet
Jenkins feels glad that her husband still thanks her for being his caregiver a
few years ago.
10. Edward Leonard shares with others
life lessons he’s learned.
11. Leila Marshall looks forward to new experiences and people in her work as an evangelist.
12. Harold Massingille's post retirement job as Brush
Park Manor service coordinator brings him appreciation and smiles.
13. Helen Presley reveals that life is truly worth living. She finds
comfort in reading her Bible.
14. Bettye Roseboro’s faith strengthens her through trials in life
and makes aging wonderful.
15. Dorothy Wise, a heart and kidney transplant and cancer survivor, declares she is a miracle.
16. Barbara Young keeps busy with committee work and dating her male companion.
You probably noticed negative stereotypes about life after 60 are missing. Now, that's successful aging!
You probably noticed negative stereotypes about life after 60 are missing. Now, that's successful aging!
Bessie Ardis (above) was our oldest writing workshop participant at 93 years old.
Workshop facilitator Frances Shani Parker (right) reviews another inspiring story.
You can read more details about this writing workshop at the Poets and Writers, Inc. website.
Frances Shani Parker, Author
Becoming Dead Right: A Hospice Volunteer in Urban Nursing Homes is available in paperback and e-book editions in America and other countries at online and offline booksellers.
