1. Accept death as part of life.
Death will come when it comes, no
matter how often you avoid the topic or how forcefully technology wrestles it
to the ground.
2. Listen to the universe.
Some call it the
universe, while many use Higher Power, God, or other names. If you believe you are
part of an infinite enlightenment, be still and listen.
3. Expect rainbow smiles.
Rainbow smiles are
joyous, healing, memorable moments that come more often when you anticipate
them.
4. Live a healthy lifestyle.
Practice habits of
good health. Commit to including them in your daily living.
5. Be informed and proactive.
Keep abreast of
what’s going on. When circumstances arise that can benefit from your knowledge,
apply what you know.
6. Do your best.
You can’t solve every
problem or be everything to everybody. Just do all you can.
7. Give service to others.
Complement others by
fulfilling needs through service. Both server and recipient benefit from this
partnership.
8. Be grateful for blessings.
Blessings come like
wondrous celebrations held in your honor. Let appreciation reign!
9. Put healthcare, financial, and property death decisions in writing.
Fulfillment of your
end-of-life wishes will often depend on what you discuss and record now.
10. Have a
dignified death journey.
Breathe in your final
phase of life with contentment. Experience a dying process that brings beauty
and calm to your personal letting go.
Copyright © Frances
Shani Parker, Author
Becoming Dead Right:
A Hospice Volunteer in Urban Nursing Homes
Frances Shani Parker, Author
Becoming Dead Right: A Hospice Volunteer in Urban
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